Instead of confronting Jess immediately, I invited Lily’s “real dad” over for Father’s Day dinner, telling her it was a surprise. Jess claimed she had a photoshoot, so I pretended to be out too. Lily and I set the table together—she picked sunflowers, “because real dads love yellow.” At 6:07 p.m., someone knocked. It was Adam. My best friend. My best man.
Jess showed up seconds later. The three of us sat while Lily, cheerful and unaware, ate happily. I asked her who Adam was. She smiled, “He’s my real daddy.” Silence followed. Then the excuses came—Jess was scared, Adam wanted to be there for her. But the betrayal cut deep. I told them both to leave. They did, quietly. I held Lily close as they walked out.
I filed for divorce the next day. Adam tried to reach out—I blocked him. Paternity tests began, but they didn’t matter. Lily is mine, not because of blood, but because I’ve always been there. That night, she asked if I was still her real daddy. I didn’t hesitate: “I always have been. I always will be.” And she believed me. Because it’s true.Remember, when your dog sniffs your crotch, they’re not being rude — they’re just trying to learn more about you.
If your dog often sniffs between your legs or others’, you can actually see it as a sign that your dog is happy and using its natural senses in a completely normal way! It’s just your dog’s way of exploring the world and gathering information about those they meet.