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<\/figure>\n\n\n\nA pregnant couple sitting on a sofa discussing a serious matter | Source: Midjourney<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I stared at it, rereading it like ten times. What did he mean by both kinds?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
That one sentence opened something up in me. I was living in London, relatively new in the city. Moved here for a job at a community art center in Hackney, teaching creative writing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I didn\u2019t know many people yet, just a few colleagues and my housemate, Anouk, who worked night shifts at the hospital. I started thinking about him a lot, that driver. I\u2019d been so ready to assume the worst.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
He had no idea who I was, but he still came all the way up eight flights to return something I didn\u2019t even know I\u2019d lost. So a few days later, I did something that surprised even me. I called the taxi company and asked if there was any way to identify the driver from that night.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
At first, the dispatcher hesitated\u2014privacy rules, they said. But when I explained I just wanted to thank him, and maybe buy him a coffee, she warmed up. \u201cI think you mean Idris,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cHe\u2019s the only one on the 2 a.m.\u20134 a.m. shift who drives that route.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
She gave me a number. I stared at it for hours before texting:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cHi, this is the woman from the other night\u2014the wallet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Would love to treat you to coffee if you\u2019re ever free.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
He replied within minutes. \u201cWas just doing the right thing. But yes, I\u2019d like that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tomorrow?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
We met at a tiny Algerian caf\u00e9 near Finsbury Park. I expected it to be awkward. It wasn\u2019t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Idris was\u2026 quiet, but not cold. He spoke slowly, carefully, like every word had weight. He\u2019d come to the UK five years ago.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Used to be a teacher back in Algeria. Taught high school philosophy, if you can believe that. \u201cWhy not teach here?\u201d I asked, sipping my mint tea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
He laughed, a little bitter. \u201cYou think they\u2019ll let me? No UK degree.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
No paperwork that counts.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n A woman talking to her little girl | Source: Midjourney<\/p>\n\n\n\n He told me he worked nights to send money home to his younger sister, who wanted to study biology. \u201cShe wants to be a doctor. I believe she can.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Something cracked open in me again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I didn\u2019t know what it was, but I wanted to help. Or at least\u2026 not walk away. Over the next few weeks, we kept meeting up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sometimes at that same caf\u00e9. Other times just walking through Clissold Park, watching the foxes dart across empty paths. One night I asked if he ever missed teaching.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cEvery day,\u201d he said. Then, half-joking, I asked if he wanted to teach a guest session at the center\u2014just to the older teens. We ran a \u201cworldview\u201d unit, exploring different philosophies through storytelling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He blinked. \u201cMe? No one would want that.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cI do,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He eventually agreed, nervous but curious. I pulled some strings with my supervisor, who was surprisingly on board. The kids loved him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He opened with a quote from Rumi and ended with a discussion on identity, asking every student to write a story about a moment they were misjudged\u2014or misjudged someone else. They were glued to every word. Afterward, one of our most difficult students\u2014Tariq\u2014came up and shook his hand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cYou talk like my uncle. He\u2019s in prison now. But he was smart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Like you.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Idris just nodded and said, \u201cThen he still is.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n That day changed something for both of us. We started seeing each other outside the context of gratitude or favors. There were still complications\u2014he worked nights, I worked days.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He didn\u2019t drink, I did (occasionally). He carried a quiet sadness, like he\u2019d aged faster than the years on his face. But he also had this gentleness that I didn\u2019t realize I\u2019d been craving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A woman tucking her daughter into bed | Source: Midjourney<\/p>\n\n\n\n He listened like nobody else. Not just to words, but to pauses, sighs, looks. And then\u2014because life is funny like this\u2014my wallet got stolen again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n On the Tube this time. I was careless. Except this time, it was emptied.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I came home angry, pacing. I couldn\u2019t stop thinking of the irony. The man I feared brought it back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And now some stranger took it for real. Idris listened quietly while I ranted, then said something that stuck:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cSome people take. Some people return.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Your job isn\u2019t to guess which\u2014just be the kind that returns.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n It made me cry. I didn\u2019t know why exactly, but it cracked something else open. Again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n We kept getting closer. He started sitting in on some of the writing classes when he had time. Students started asking for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He even got a small gig mentoring one of our scholarship kids. Then came the twist. One night, Idris didn\u2019t show up to our caf\u00e9 meeting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I waited over an hour. No call. No text.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nothing. I worried. I called the taxi company.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The dispatcher sounded hesitant. \u201cIdris isn\u2019t on tonight. He might be\u2026 dealing with something.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I don\u2019t think it\u2019s my place to say.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n I didn\u2019t sleep. The next morning, I got a text\u2014from a number I didn\u2019t recognize. \u201cThis is Lamis, Idris\u2019s sister.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He asked me to message you. He\u2019s okay, just\u2026 in a holding center. Immigration.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n My heart dropped.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Turns out, Idris\u2019s work visa had expired a month ago. He\u2019d been trying to renew it quietly. Avoiding stress.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A pregnant couple cuddling in bed | Source: Midjourney<\/p>\n\n\n\n He didn\u2019t want me involved. He got stopped during a random check while dropping off a fare near Paddington. Taken in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I went into action mode. I called every legal aid number I could find. I told my boss.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I gathered letters from students, colleagues, anyone who had met him through the center. We compiled a package. Stories.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Testimonials. Evidence of his contributions. Two weeks passed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nothing. Then one morning, I got another text from Lamis:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cThey released him. On probation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But he\u2019s not allowed to work for now.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n I ran to his place. He looked thinner. Tired.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But when he saw me, he smiled\u2014just barely. \u201cI told them about you,\u201d he said. \u201cAbout the class.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The kids. Everything. I think that helped.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n It did.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In fact, it helped so much that someone from our center suggested we bring him on as a volunteer until things cleared legally. Not paid. But official.<\/p>\n\n\n\n We did. The kids were over the moon. Eventually, Idris got a new visa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A special one tied to \u201ceducational contribution.\u201d Not permanent, but renewable. And the biggest twist? Six months later, he was offered a full teaching assistant position.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Not from us\u2014but from another center that had seen him in action during a student workshop we co-hosted. He almost didn\u2019t take it. \u201cYou helped me build all this here,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cI don\u2019t want to leave it behind.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cYou\u2019re not,\u201d I told him. \u201cYou\u2019re building forward.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n We still saw each other, of course. Dated quietly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Not flashy. No Instagram posts. Just slow coffee mornings, park walks, late-night talks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n We didn\u2019t need to define it for the world. We just knew. And here\u2019s the thing I keep coming back to:<\/p>\n\n\n\n I thought that night in the stairwell was the scariest part of the story.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It wasn\u2019t. The scariest part was how close I came to not knowing him at all. If I hadn\u2019t texted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If he hadn\u2019t returned the wallet. If either of us had leaned into the fear instead of the reach. People talk about fate like it\u2019s some dramatic thunderclap moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But sometimes, it\u2019s just a sticky note in your wallet. Be safe. The world is full of both kinds.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He was right. But the world also lets you choose which kind you\u2019ll be. So now, every time I find something lost\u2014a dropped phone, a forgotten scarf, even a half-written note in the library\u2014I return it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Always. Because you never know who you\u2019re returning it to. 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